Understanding the Difference Through Spiritual Maturity
The Bible teaches us the concepts of meekness and weakness are often misunderstood and sometimes even conflated. However, they are fundamentally different, and understanding this distinction is crucial for spiritual growth and maturity.
Meekness is often perceived as a form of weakness, but in reality, it is a profound strength. The Bible describes meekness as a virtue that involves humility, gentleness, and self-control. It is the ability to remain calm and composed, even in the face of provocation or adversity. Jesus Himself exemplified meekness throughout His life and ministry. In Matthew 11:29, He says:
“Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
Meekness is not about being passive or timid; it is about having the strength to control one’s emotions and reactions. It is the power to choose patience over anger, forgiveness over resentment, and humility over pride. A meek person is strong enough to endure hardships without becoming bitter or vengeful.
Weakness signifies an absence of strength, power, or capability. It can appear in different ways, including physical fragility, emotional turbulence, or spiritual susceptibility. While meekness reflects a conscious decision to show restraint, weakness is typically an unintentional state that may limit one’s capacity to handle life’s difficulties.
In 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, Paul speaks about his own weaknesses and how God’s power is made perfect in them:
“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power …
We often wrestle with controlling our emotions because we care deeply, pouring our hearts into everything we do. However, God has a divine plan for how His Will is to be fulfilled, and it’s neither our place nor our duty to seek changes to it. Each day, I am reminded of this truth and find myself needing to reflect on it more frequently than I’d like to admit.